Prin mesajul postat tanarul nu a vrut doar sa ii faca o declaratie de dragoste persoanei iubite, ci si sa atraga atentia oamenilor cu privire la presiunea pe care societatea o pune asupra femeilor in ceea ce piveste aspectul fizic.
|| I love this woman and her curvy body. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as "chubby" or even "fat." Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie. For me, there is nothing sexier than this woman right here: thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc. Her shape and size won't be the one featured on the cover of Cosmopolitan but it's the one featured in my life and in my heart. There's nothing sexier to me than a woman who is both curvy and confident; this gorgeous girl I married fills out every inch of her jeans and is still the most beautiful one in the room. Guys, rethink what society has told you that you should desire. A real woman is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. She's real. She has beautiful stretch marks on her hips and cute little dimples on her booty. Girls, don't ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated. There is a guy out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my Sarah. || photo cred: @kaileehjudd
"Iubesc aceasta femeie si corpul ei cu forme. In adolescenta prietenii mei radeau de mine pentru ca eram atras de fetele plinute sau scunde, pe care ei le numeau "dolofane" sau chiar "grase". Apoi, la maturitate, am ajuns sa ma autoeduc in ceea ce priveste feminismul si modul in care media marginalizeaza femeile prin impunerea unui tipar de frumusete clar: trebuie sa fie inalte, slabe si atletice. Apoi am realizat cati barbati se lasa mintiti de aceste tipare", a marturisit barbatul.
|| Just a couple of kids who promised each other years ago that we would love and support one another in the pursuit of our dreams. Every step we've taken has been together, hand in hand, and we wouldn't have it any other way. 💛 Thank you to each and every one of you who has messaged us with your heartfelt stories and encouraging positivity. What started as a simple declaration of adoration for @sassyredlipstick has turned into something so much bigger and we couldn't be more grateful for it. Nothing but love and positivity over here! Be sure to stay tuned to our IG Stories to continue on this journey with us! || #TeamTripp
Mesajul emotionant al barbatului a devenit viral pe internet si a strans in doar cateva zile aproape 40 de mii de aprecieri. In ciuda faptului ca este o declaratie emotionanta, gestul nu a primit doar complimente, ci a avut parte si de reactii negative din partea celor pe s-au simtit criticati.